| Female - As a girl friend? |
[Oct. 23rd, 2006|05:23 pm] |
Most of the NORMAL people around would say the world is turning into some place with greed and lust. Girls nowadays, most of the case, would espect thier lovers to pay thier bills, get them luxury presents, and anything concerns with hard cold cash; besides caring and love, of course. It wont be hard to understand this fact really. I do personally think, its not a must, but rather being a gentleman, guys should has such a mindsets to at least pay for the meals and such.
What I do not understand was, a small part of female nowadays, so happen to be around me, thinks the other way round. They do not like thier boy friends to pay for them. And often, from what I had saw, relationships problems comes in while the arguments from such a small matter is further gotten worst. From that point, break-ups was normally be the case.
From feeling bad about letting thier boy friend pays for them, to feeling bad about the decision made for breaking-ups. I mean, I do not see any point that such a small problem should had became such a tragedic ending. Couldn't they just accept the fact they got a caring boy friend? Couldn't they just accept the fact that thier are very lucky to have such cares, and should cherish them? Were the principles of "not to depends on anyone and try to be independent" more important then the one who cares for you 24/7, 365 days a year?
To me it should not be a big deal. But sometimes, it doesn't really made any sense to turn down such an ideal good guy for such a stupid reason. Well, I guess female are mysterious and hard to catch what they are thinking. |
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| Friends |
[Jul. 18th, 2006|10:57 pm] |
Been wondering how one individual define another individual as a friend. Was it used simply for people that they just know? Or was it only for those who they really understand each other and willingly to support each other in any circumstances? Or just a tools to archieve his/her own goals? And maybe for other reason I couldn't think of this moment.
As for me, I define friends as someone wouldnt mind to share his/her thoughts with me. Someone who wouldn't mind to hang around me. Someone will knock in some sense into me. Also, someone who treated me as thier definition of the word friend.
Sounded simple, and yet complicated. Ever had this situation where 2 parties, both your friends, argue with each others where you can't really help both sides? Pick one side and you will lose the other one? Or a situation where a person you call him/her a friend do not understand you at all? Felt disappointed isnt it? Or some situation like betrayal of a friend, and yet he/she will still tought that you are stupid enough not to notice what he/she had done?
Of cause, those are the troublesome side of a person u call him/her as a friend. Memories between friends could be a very shinny gem or a very valuable treasure chest, something to be kept in rememberence till the last moment of a person life.
So, for me, I do think if I could still see the good side of a friend which could balance up wat he/she done, I would still cherish this friendship.
~rylands~ |
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| Here goes!~ |
[Jul. 16th, 2006|07:43 pm] |
Alright, out of boredom, totally random, and what could I say? I am finally here, registered my own personal and well known blog service of LJ (although I still haven't verify my email YET; and yea I am already start posting this XD)
For those who know me, well I guess not too hard to guess (I think), yes I am rylands (Duh of coz) aka teh hentai god (self-claimed). An Otaku lived in a lovely country named Malaysia and in a little sweet island named Penang (suddenly I felt wonderful to live in here). An artist (although I wouldn't prefer to call myself one XD) who draws in japanese anime / manga style. Admire the talents of George Carlin for his comedy facts that you and I can't deny on most of the time (and yea I do think I registered this due to his talented talk shows).
I guess I won't update this account like everyone else do. Rather, I would like to share out what I do think of certain term, behavior, attitute, whatever-crap-I-would-like-to-crap-on(S). Am looking forward who could found me in here first XD (esp cfers) XD
rylands~ |
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